Lady of Misrule @Lady@cat.family

obviously there are other kinds of Lady but that’s not the question

which would u rather?

would you pour Sprite in your coffee?

who wins ?

TorrentWitch87 can torrent anything. But can SHE torrent one quirky single-season chinese drama which used to be aired on Netflix?

me: being a sysadmin is kind of like being a mom…

gf: ok…

me: and @aescling is a cat, so the services she syscatmins are like her litter

gf: ok…

me: so the server that she hosts them all on is like her litterbox

gf: no

@aescling do you want to learn how to host a forum software

forum categories:

Meta
• Info
• Help & Requests

On Topic
• Web Philosophy
• Linking & Networking
• Tools
• Show & Tell

Off Topic
• Media Recs
• Political Theory
• Daily Life
• Current Events

if you have more than 250 active followers your notifs are already a forum

“cool people” = less than 250 active followers

i would like a forum for cool people on here who make websites

reminder to update the copyright year in any files you touch

i used to write fedi software and contribute interesting meta and have thought-provoking discussions with well-known names and faces and believe in the power of community and the power of individuals to help each other and save lives and chart a collective better path forward. then something happened. hmmm

sometimes i see someone on here from 2017 and they still have a following and still are well-liked and i wonder why i failed to achieve that

and then i remember i explicitly gave up on this place as a community and have no interest in maintaining social networks with the kinds of people or in the kinds of ways it would take to make that happen

and then i judge them

girls LOVE HAVING CLOTHES
and HATE COPS

by pride i mostly just mean caring passionately about certain local foods

girlfriend’s sibling’s partner is from Everett and it’s amazing how much worse westsiders are at having regional pride

2025 is off to a start

i hardly think all journalists are geniuses but i have at least read An Good Piece Of Journalism

programmers are geniuses? i haven’t encountered a single piece of software programming that i would consider genius in the past ten years