Satsuma @Satsuma@cat.family

@Betty @villainousfriend the sub title being “a true infidelity story” when that is like…the least notable aspect of the whole thing is definitely signaling something but i am not sure what

@pagrus @compostablespork @twistylittlepassages yeah my current instance is both much smaller and more proactive about defederation than by first (which is part of why i left)

@twistylittlepassages @pagrus @compostablespork yeah i thought about referencing dunbars number, which is a bit of a reductive framing re:relationships but also something that does have some amount of truth to it

@pagrus @compostablespork yeah i’ve pretty much just posted followers only since i moved instances (in 2021) which feels like a clear signal i’ve shifted from trying to meet new people / have conversations with people i don’t know to just trying to talk to people i already know at least a bit

i don’t think that says anything about the platform necessarily (besides that it has the tools to let me shift gears like that)—the more i make new acquaintances the more they have to be shallow ones bc i only have so much time in a day / emotional capacity