Satsuma @Satsuma@cat.family

@wallhackio i guess u arent very high level yet

@wallhackio damn i was hoping you’d hijinksed your way into an escape

@wallhackio how was jail

@wallhackio so the stealing was on purpose it was just the consequences that was unexpected

@wallhackio accidentally steal something

@moonsea its v cute

@coriander @Lady @aescling glad you’ve come around on this one street food is g

@aescling if you correct calebs vote its a tie?

@titania he’s got you there

@wallhackio no

@Betty my current girlfriend apparently liked me for likes years plural before we started dating, a fact which i clued into maybe a month before we got together

actually wait hey @Lady please explain to us disasters what romance is

@Betty femme homosociality definitely walks VERY close to flirting so the question of “am i performing female friendship or performing a complex mating ritual” has definitely tripped me up more than once. hence the need to be like “okay but how would i feel if they were actually flirting??” lmao

@Betty yeah i mean if someone asks me out out of the blue i would probably be pretty awkward about it—generally my actual relationships involve quite a lot of easing in via flirting / date like but not officially a date activities but the *idea* of them being interested in me needs to be like, something at least mildly positive in order for me to y’know enjoy the flirting and date like activities

i guess “will notice/respond to flirting” is another one for the list then???

@Betty hahaha yeah the queer grouping effect is really making this difficult

@Betty if i’m not sure, imagining them eg. asking me out and seeing how i feel about that is probably more reliable than anything i could describe in terms of general behavior/feelings, also?

@Betty (am ace, am probably more aroish than your average jawn)

i would say my inclination for physical touch goes up by a bit and i’m more interested in having their undivided attention as well (as opposed to friends where just hanging out and chatting is good but not necessarily better than doing a thing together or hanging out as a group).

but obv close friendship also includes some aspects of both of those things (these days my best friend and i mostly communicate by having actual phone calls with eachother, crazy i know) so hard to say!

@wallhackio i suspecg they are not worth much