@aescling i'm speaking lightly but what i mean is that there are ways of conceptualizing "being a ladycat" which do not depend on a particular gender identification or whatever
a hypothetical person could, for example, be a huge bear man furry genderwise but be a total ladycat in bed. and if THEY get to be a ladycat then surely someone without such strong gender attachments would also have access to the identity
beyond that there is the angle of not wanting to be in the closet, i.e. wanting one's SEXUAL identity as a ladycat lesbian to be recognized OUTSIDE the bedroom in addition to inside. one could maybe argue that this is a form of gender but it is at least a very different (gay) formulation of gender than is commonly implied by the term, and probably one you would be more amenable to (?)
i'm not meaning to assert that your relation to ladycatness IS a sexual one, i'm just using it as an example because that is how, for example, some kinds of lesbian identity are formed. you are a lesbian in the sheets and that MAKES you a lesbian in the streets; there is no presexual “lesbian gender” (this is a point open to debate)
@aescling sexually a ladycat, gender void ?
@witchfynder_finder mozart is gay as in happy and beethoven is queer as in fuck you
@witchfynder_finder especially since the force is actually a metaphor for like, narrative
like if you change the action from "lift a spaceship" to "tell a story", "believe in something", or "respect someone's pronouns" it makes complete fucking sense
yoda is saying that if you catch yourself trying to actualize, you have already failed at actualizing because you have started from a place of the thing not being true. either make it true or don't
@witchfynder_finder now i just need to find some good guys with a billion dollars…
this in a conversation where i said “labour and no money works but money with no labour gets nothing done” and he called that “idealistic”
lmao
@witchfynder_finder that armpit looks kinda fucked up for being slap in the centre of the picture
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@witchfynder_finder there are gays who ride together on the same horse, and there are gays who ride alongside each other on different horses
@witchfynder_finder i just asked my girlfriend and she immediately voted for spectrier and that tells you everything you need to know about our relationship
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