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@aescling i'm speaking lightly but what i mean is that there are ways of conceptualizing "being a ladycat" which do not depend on a particular gender identification or whatever

a hypothetical person could, for example, be a huge bear man furry genderwise but be a total ladycat in bed. and if THEY get to be a ladycat then surely someone without such strong gender attachments would also have access to the identity

beyond that there is the angle of not wanting to be in the closet, i.e. wanting one's SEXUAL identity as a ladycat lesbian to be recognized OUTSIDE the bedroom in addition to inside. one could maybe argue that this is a form of gender but it is at least a very different (gay) formulation of gender than is commonly implied by the term, and probably one you would be more amenable to (?)

i'm not meaning to assert that your relation to ladycatness IS a sexual one, i'm just using it as an example because that is how, for example, some kinds of lesbian identity are formed. you are a lesbian in the sheets and that MAKES you a lesbian in the streets; there is no presexual “lesbian gender” (this is a point open to debate)

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it's one thing to say love is dead and another entirely to wage a war against it

@witchfynder_finder mozart is gay as in happy and beethoven is queer as in fuck you

@witchfynder_finder especially since the force is actually a metaphor for like, narrative

like if you change the action from "lift a spaceship" to "tell a story", "believe in something", or "respect someone's pronouns" it makes complete fucking sense

yoda is saying that if you catch yourself trying to actualize, you have already failed at actualizing because you have started from a place of the thing not being true. either make it true or don't

companies be like, how many dollars will you spend for us not to misgender you

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Start a blog. Don't amplify stuff you disagree with. Mute stuff that bugs you. Focus; veer occasionally. Add context to links. Consider waiting a day after writing something before posting it. Write for yourself first. Expect to not know what you have to say until you've written.

@witchfynder_finder now i just need to find some good guys with a billion dollars…

this in a conversation where i said “labour and no money works but money with no labour gets nothing done” and he called that “idealistic”

lmao

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my dad was like “but if someone with mega billions is spending a bunch of money to trash the union then you need someone with mega billions to counter that” and i was just like “amazon workers literally did not”

@witchfynder_finder that armpit looks kinda fucked up for being slap in the centre of the picture

« Though the heels she is wearing are short, they make her almost as tall as Link is. » zelda is taller than link

@witchfynder_finder there are gays who ride together on the same horse, and there are gays who ride alongside each other on different horses

@witchfynder_finder i just asked my girlfriend and she immediately voted for spectrier and that tells you everything you need to know about our relationship

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