@witchfynder_finder especially since the force is actually a metaphor for like, narrative
like if you change the action from "lift a spaceship" to "tell a story", "believe in something", or "respect someone's pronouns" it makes complete fucking sense
yoda is saying that if you catch yourself trying to actualize, you have already failed at actualizing because you have started from a place of the thing not being true. either make it true or don't