@felineforestmedicine@mstdn.social i have this necklace: https://www.etsy.com/listing/247765213/communication-necklace-batteries-pastel? (the shop also has a couple other designs for similar concepts — i like the ‘health bar’ one with different numbers of hearts)
Combined with a ‘hey sometimes I get overwhelmed which makes it difficult for me to talk’ convo I’ve found it works pretty well.
I’ve also found that text communication is easier for me sometimes (and harder other times) so I’ll sometimes send ‘just fyi I’m not talking today’ texts to people with instructions that they should also text me if they need something instead of trying to talk to me in person
Some of the people I know who go nonverbal more regularly have learned to sign and found that it’s more frequently accessible to them, but that requires a *much* higher level of commitment from both you & the other parties bc you’re all learning a whole new language. But it’s not too hard to learn a handful of signs / how to fingerspell without really getting into the grammar if that’s something you’d like to try out. Plus it might come in handy if you make any Deaf/HoH/nonverbal friends!
@Lady Missionary bibles were frequently KJV translated into whatever language rather than original translations from source
re: food
@pamela its got one of the best effort : reward ratios for sure
food
@pamela softboiled egg is the main one
Nice soy sauce if its a lower sodium noodle packet (which most of them are these days unfortunately)
Chopped green onion/parsley is a nice way to add a little extra color & flavor if i have any on hand
surgery recovery (covid mention)
@twistylittlepassages that’s a great feeling to have! I’m glad to hear it
Over at Dreamwidth, I rounded up all the suggested themes for next year's #Fancake rounds and threw them into a giant poll.
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surgery recovery (covid mention)
@twistylittlepassages i’m glad you caught it early & that were able to get it all out in a single procedure! I hope the rest of your recovery goes smoothly 💛
@Lady sarcastic etymologies are some of my favorites
#Ao3TagOfTheDay: Quinn runs from his feelings but his feelings have a moped
@Rowyn 😂
@fogsrollingin chaotic
@Cyannin oh no thats the worst :(
@bgcarlisle are you implying you’ve fasttraveled
@sublingual yeah the river does kinda squash everything to one side so it makes sense
@sublingual this makes Philly look incredibly triangular
re: Long, scifi
I don’t think these two essays are intentionally responding to each-other, but I do think SuperDoomedPlanet’s critique of what they call the “novelization style” (transparent prose, consistently close 3rd person narrator, short time-frames & high stakes, narrative structures you’d expect from a tv show or a movie) reflects a lot of the reasons why I found Ex Urbe’s argument that specific worldbuilding is bad because someone might disagree with it so baffling
re: Long, scifi
«Every really good novel is a little bit imperfect. The most fun, engaging books aren’t perfectly engineered; they have ambiguities, multiple interpretations, detours, and odd protuberances. They often include passages that look like side trips and diversions, straying from the plot but developing themes, ideas, and characters….They’re eccentric and weirdly shaped and packed with stuff. Some of the stuff may or may not work. Readers may disagree about which stuff worked and which didn’t. When that happens, that’s a clue that the novel is interesting.»
From: http://www.superdoomedplanet.com/blog/2016/04/15/conclusions-and-caveats/
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