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One of my classes was a half semester course so our last meeting was tonight, and the prof very casually pulled me back when everyone was leaving to check what my plans were after school and oh, was i aware of these fellowships his program runs that i could apply for? He’d be happy to write me a reference if I was interested in applying
Except then I needed to double check some info he gave me, which meant emailing him and it turns out someone saying very nice things about you doesn’t actually make emailing them about research opportunities any easier!!!! Going to go lie on my floor and recover instead of doing any homework now. You know, as a very professional academic who’s definitely qualified for this fellowship program would
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@Satsuma anyways i am simultaneously very good at networking and very bad at networking
i know all the people and gain zero opportunities from them
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@Lady oh mood
The think about doing an associates to bachelors is that i spent my first two years charming profs who don’t do research, aren’t allowed to have ta’s, don’t know about most undergraduate opportunities, & will be my last choice for recommendations bc they’ll be two years out of date by the time I need them.
So now I’m tryna speedrun networking my junior year
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@Satsuma see in my case i majored in gender studies
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@Lady people do things with that sometimes
But yeah history was in part a tactical choice
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@Satsuma i’m not saying people don’t do things with it, i’m saying that the professors tend to not be the type with a bunch of opportunities in their back pocket
since opportunities tend to coincide with capitalism, and gender studies tends to, not
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@Lady mh yeah
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@Satsuma but i mean i was severely depressed all of college it’s not like i was asking around either
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@Lady that does make things difficult
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@Satsuma i mean that’s what i’d do
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@Lady its the reasonable course of action
Tbh I actually kinda dislike lying on the floor these days bc this apartment is wall to wall carpeted
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@Satsuma you don’t like lying on carpet?
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@Lady i mean i grew up in all hardwood so thats where the emotional resonance is
But mostly i mean like, its cheap mediocre landlord carpet.
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@Satsuma get a blanket
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@Lady at that point i may as well just go hide in bed which already has plenty of blankets
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@Satsuma lying in bed just makes me tired which is a problem if i’m trying to *recoup* energy
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@Lady naps tho
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@Satsuma SOMETIMES
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@Lady naaaaaaps
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@Lady no but actually i started this thread at like 10 pm or whatever so it’s less recouping energy and more ‘waiting for bedtime bc i am Out Of Spoons’
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@Satsuma see i still usually do that lying on the floor with a blanket
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@Satsuma but i have it easy because i just have a blanket with me most of the time
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@Lady convenient
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@Satsuma i’m gonna try and make walking around with quilts draped over your shoulders a Thing
it’s an idea whose time has come
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@Satsuma by which i mean it is comfortable, fashionable, allows easy thermoregulation, and if you want to take a nap you already have a blanket
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@Lady kibi reïnventing capes
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@Satsuma they’re worn differently! capes are secured by a clasp at the front of the neck whereas quilts are secured by gravity on account of there being more fabric in front of your body than behind
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@Lady until you need to leave the house in which case you want a bit of extra security while you’re running around
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@Lady thats probably better sleep hygiene than my habit of Nesting
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@Satsuma You did the thing, tho! V. proud of you 💜
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@Rowyn i did the thing!!!!
Ty 💛
Academia, networking meta
I am actually not bad at networking it’s just very high stakes for me bc ~institutional systems set up to put me at a disadvantage~
And also because email is the fucking worst