Lady of the Land @Lady@cat.family

i’m not alone in preferring the second one right?? i bet i could make this happen lmao

would you rather see

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gods i just had the greatest time with my girlfriend [fur jnf ybbxvat fhcre ubg nsgre n qnl bs jbex] so after dinner we put on The Reminder and danced

and eventually [bhe fuvegf jrer bss naq jr jrer shpxvat rnpu bgure guebhtu bhe wrnaf]… well for a bit anyway haha [jr qvgpurq gur wrnaf jura jr ergverq gb gur pbhpu]

i mean this is basically how Discord spoiler tags work

it was neat to be able to switch between hidden and unhidden text flexibly in the same sentence and i think it was better at actually giving people context for what they're reading

honestly i'd be all for going back to the ROT13 days if it wasn't murder on screenreaders

optimistically i'm waiting for things to settle down a bit but who can say whether that will happen

before next week i AM going to take a look at our federation tab and maybe also revise our policies

oh, that's why i feel more tired than usual at this time

just wait literally three days and then publish your take

absolutely abhorrent that this is in a major newspaper

if you publish a piece before Wednesday which analyses the results of the upcoming United States midterm elections, i’m blocking you

because i don't (can't) proactively moderate against smaller instances with a handful of users until they become a problem, it's really important that the big instances we send posts to only federate to small instances which are friendly

my major concern is posts here showing up on federated timelines there and then getting boosted by someone outside our usual cultural sphere, leading to context collapse

moderation isn't good enough there to ensure that the people seeing and boosting our public posts are necessarily the people with our interests at heart

i've been tempted to block all the big instances we currently have silenced but idk… people here follow people there

not gay as in “on netflix”, lesbian as in “censored on social media for ties to porn”

i can’t post what i’m currently listening to because it hasn’t been added to MusicBrainz yet and my flow depends on that

lots of women run instances, the registrations are just closed

like sure the big instances new users might be creating accounts on these days tend to be operated by men but that’s because men have difficulty setting boundaries lmao

is there a shortage of instances with woman admins? i feel like of the admins i follow it’s about half and half

new fediversians: not every instance shares your character count or formatting limitations