Lady, EVOLVED 
uggghhh i think i am going to have to quote Copious Queer Theory in my response to this response to my review of this fanfiction
hey so i see you wrote about queer grief? well, here's what judith butler says on the subject:
will i get praised or cancelled for my extensive knowledge of queer theoretical approaches to grief and mourning, episode 117/????
people get Weird about theory
@Lady what do you mean by “Weird”?
@aescling unnecessarily hostile and antagonistic about any invocation of it
@aescling typically with little-to-no understanding of what the purpose of it actually is
@Lady tbh idk that i have a good answer to what the purpose of theory is (this is not a dig on theory)
anyway. that is unfortunate
@aescling i would say that the purpose of (critical) theory is to build a (critical) framework for analysing things (that one can do criticism to)
@aescling for a potentially quite loose definition of “meaning”, “embedded in”, and “text”
@aescling “attempting to uncover the meanings embedded in a text” is i think the conventional definition