trans woman who is only romantically/sexually/etc involved with men
(please be civil in replies this is not a subtoot to pwn someone i am in an argument with this is genuine inquiry on the perspective of my mutuals)
@wallhackio depends. by which I guess I mostly mean, she gay if she say she gay.
@Alexis @wallhackio
this was going to be my answer
@vantiss @wallhackio if a bisexual person is still bisexual even if they only get involved with people in ways that look straight from the outside, then this hypothetical woman can lay whatever claim to gayness (or straightness) she wants to, even if she only dates dudes. it's about what's in your heart.
(personally, I'm gay in all directions.)
@wallhackio i’m not sure this is a distinction with a diffurence, but in my general clarification, a heterosexual trans purrson engages in a kind of queer sexuality (as being trans is necessarily queer) but this is a case where i avoid using the really broad sense of “gay” because i think it is too potentially confusing and, more purressingly, potentially invalidating
those who say "depends" please elaborate