@Lady you see the question is not if i’m gay,

@aescling my personal opinion is that wanting to be the thing they are attracted to is a big chunk of the reason why many lesbians even consider themselves women at all

@aescling anyway my experience with pansexuals is that they are absolutely do tend to be "what if we did bisexuality but made both parts of it gay" genderfluid types

@aescling makes me wonder if the corresponding enbies who are "hetero" towards both men and women is a meaningful demographic as well

@Lady couldn't pawsibly relate

@Lady @aescling as a pansexual, i can only corroborate this

@Lady @aescling definitionally yes, but nobody's gonna hold that against you

@KitRedgrave @Lady gods i wish i lived in a world like that

@aescling @Lady you do, but sadly fedi is not exactly a large world or all that capable of protecting you