the pansexual probably-genderfluid urge to be continuously confused over the difference between attraction and goals
@aescling fellas is it gay to want to be the thing you are attracted to?
@Lady you see the question is not if i’m gay,
@aescling my personal opinion is that wanting to be the thing they are attracted to is a big chunk of the reason why many lesbians even consider themselves women at all
@aescling anyway my experience with pansexuals is that they are absolutely do tend to be "what if we did bisexuality but made both parts of it gay" genderfluid types
@aescling makes me wonder if the corresponding enbies who are "hetero" towards both men and women is a meaningful demographic as well
