we grew up with warnings of what driving in chicago is like and just... nah, that's not stressful at all after dallas. sure, traffic speed is 15 over posted but people actually use their turn signals, give each other space, and drive less because the public transportation actually approaches usable
@aescling nope! we were too young when we lived in cali to be driving
just traffic jams forever i thought? we know how to deal with those and it's "stay in your lane, leave space, ignore everyone merging into it"