@Lady I'm not trying to do a Dialectics, I just want people to disagree with me so I can understand my own thoughts&ideas&perspectives&intuitions and also their thoughts&ideas&perspectives&intuitions better!
(... and then people don't disagree with me NEARLY enough!)
@gaditb i mean i would argue this is dialectics but
@gaditb well it is complicated because dialectics is a greek word coined by Plato to describe Socratic dialogues, but it was refined by German philosophy to mean a resolving of contradictions
the way i think of dialectics is this: you have an opinion, and somebody else has an opinion. on their own, each opinion seems relatively reasonable and cohesive. but when brought together, each opinion reveals gaps or unexamined contradictions in the other one. this process of bringing the opinions together allows the opinion-havers to refine their opinions in ways that they could not have on their own
i am not sure that this definition exactly matches either the Platonic or Hegelian or Marxist definition, but it does seem close to what you were describing
@gaditb bit complicated i think, because resolving contradictions also produces new contradictions, and also you have to define what “resolving” means
to give a practical example, consider a political party and the people represented by the party. the political party sets the policy, but the people are who the policy is supposed to serve. there is a contradiction here because the policy has to be set by people who do not have the lived experience or understanding of the people the policy is supposed to serve. on the other hand, this contradiction is necessary because it is not an appropriate expectation that your average person on the street be a policy wonk.
so dialectics are necessary to ensure the policy actually benefits the people in ways that it is supposed to benefit them. you could say that if this is successful, this is “resolving the contradiction”. or you could say that the contradiction is inherent and cannot be resolved. but what you do NOT want is for the contradiction to be ignored and the people who set policy to do so without engaging with the public.
so this is kind of the context of dialectics in Marxism as i understand it. it is an attempt to answer the question of how Marxist intellectuals who do not reflect the average worker can nevertheless figure out policies that the average worker will benefit from. so it is a conversation between theory and practice, leaders and workers, and hypothesized ideals and historical experience
this is a different scope and scale than the personal level of a single person developing opinions through conversations with other people. i guess i don¦t have a good answer on whether they can be considered similar or different? it seems kind of different to me but the process also seems kind of the same
@gaditb [the other way contradictions are “resolved” are by conditions changing; for example the contradictions in the feudal system resolving into the different set of contradictions in the capitalist system. but there are always contradictions]
@Lady The minor thing this makes me think of is, I decided to have an intuitive discomfort with easily drawing parallels between societal-/group- -level phenomena and analysis and individual-/interpersonal- -level phenomena and analysis. Which feels relevant in response I think maybe but I don't know what if any implication or follow-up that carries here.
@Lady The more significant--
the thing I was thinking about when thinking about "resolution" or not was, like, e.g. the Talmud starts ("at the beginning" is not necessarily where people always start learning talmud, but it's a common point) with a discussion of what time to say evening shema.
https://www.sefaria.org/Berakhot.2a?lang=bi
(Read it roughly as a transcript of discussions. Although not necessarily synchronous. Also the part where it says "GEMARA" is jumping to the discussion of a different group of people prompted by the earlier transcript.)
And the thing it builds up/builds toward is not a "... so in conclusion, THIS is the correct time" but instead a compilation, explication, exploration and further contextualization of the various differing opinions surrounding the question and related questions, until a new question becomes the main focus.
@Lady Is the(/a) goal of Doing Dilectics davka /resolving/ contradictions?
Like if I'm just seeking to find, value, and understand contradictions, and not caring overmuch whether or not a resolution happens, is that in the general domain of Dialectics? (let's say Hegel/Marx-type (or are those two also different?), since that's what most people who use it around me mean.)