help i have developed my identity around a hobby that only people who are either evil or traumatized do. now the only spaces i can go to talk about it are full of people who are either evil or traumatized. how do i fix this
@Satsuma no i have fixed my trauma, the problem is i have nowhere to go that isn’t full of traumatized or evil people unless i just, idk, find a better hobby??
@Lady i guess you can’t force anyone else into therapy and personal growth
@Lady I am trying to guess the hobby from this description and what I know about you and am being less successful than one might think. (Unless it's just "computers" and an implication that computer people must be in one of the two categories, but I don't *think* you think that's true.)
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@aschmitz leftism
@aschmitz @Lady i mean i think its weakly true for computers in the sense that theres a high correlation between spending lots of time online and being relatively disconnected from ones irl communities, and also a high overlap between being relatively disconnected from ones irl communities and being traumatized and/or prone to asocial behaviors
@Lady well therapy and personal growth helps with trauma usually