@Lady The aesthetic is like 80% the same

@coriander winter lesbian is a lot cooler because winter is also about death

@Lady See you're getting it

@Lady Plus you still get to drink warm drinks and wear cute sweaters

@coriander but no it’s awkward for me because we have a whole lot of traditions but i don’t believe in any of the things those traditions are meant to represent

like, we do advent? kinda hard to justify that one in a non-Christian context? but i’m still gonna light the candles??

@Lady Ahhh yeah I feel you, it does get weird and muddy like that

@coriander my girlfriend does epiphany for Eating Delicious Kings Cake reasons so we might end up in a weird state in a few years where we just skip christmas and stick everything on Twelfth Night and Jan 6

(a date which is now made awkward for other reasons, but, ugh)