the cool thing about transitioning is men, cis, trans, queer and otherwise and a nonzero amount of women too all just sorta stopped caring about my opinion as much the second they learned it was coming out of a woman and not a man
but holy shit do i have as many opportunities to say "i told you so" after the fact as i could ever want, and that's very satisfying
@kat i am reminded of that one time i did a poll https://elekk.xyz/@jellyfish_link/105213560442496520
@kat i was wondering why nobody ever seemed to want to talk to me or have a pleasant conversation but it turned out they were all terrified. go figure