@The_T@wallhackio@vaporeon_ fwiw i don't mind being called "bro" or "dude" or "brother" by people who intend them in gender-neutral ways, on the condition that nobody uses me as an example like "oh, holly's ok with it, so i should treat other trans people in ways that hurt them"
@wallhackio @The_T @vaporeon_ i suppose. it may have been wiser to ask i guess. but now you do know :3