@coriander not that it is necessary fur this to be true fur any of my trans brothers to be good or valid and such but often when i see ntrans man talk about gender i find that they have to say immensely valuable
@coriander (to be more clear about what i’m trying to say with my caveat there, i just mean that, although it is clear why many trans men are purredisposed to think about gender, we should not require them to theorize their own lives and such)
@aescling yeah of course, I gotchu
@aescling Yeah they often have unique and worthy perspectives to bring, just like trans women do, and I feel like we in general need to be better at listening to them