i might move instances sometime
i love plural cafe and i'll probably always keep a presence here and a finger on the local TL
but a good dedicated 18+ instance by mods i trust where the local TL is yk, tailored to the stuff i'm making, that'd be worth a hop
though, i'm not sure if there are 18+ instances that are as well moderated as plural cafe with choosing who not to federate with
@manifold goooood question
monsterpit was wonderful and i wish i knew of a successor i could just as easily recommend
