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i’m curious: do you know what your parents would have planned to call you if you were the opposite agab? and if you chose your name, did you end up going with that name or use something else?
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@setavulos 1) yes
2) one of the early signals of how not-cishet all three of us were is the fact that we explicitly inquired to my parents about this, & when we discovered it was the same name for all three of us, debated who should “have” it (we gave it to youngest sibling
3) my current offline name is a gender neutral nickname that can derive from several names incl the one i was born with
