is it nerves or is it that the vast majority of people who post about planning weddings instill way more meaning into what is fundamentally a legal technicality than i ever will? baby it's both
@xsssm i feel very blessed that the first wedding i ever attended was a little thing a queer weirdo hosted in their parents backyard, and i didn’t have to deal with all of the Everything until the second one
@Lady unfortunately we have to do a bare minimum of Everything for Reasons (at least with the vows the reason is we're both sincere to a fault 😅)