fandom related negative self talk 

feeling very down about not being very good at characterization and how i just don’t seem to Get Things the way that other people do!! dynamics and personalities, in fic but also sometimes irl. i don’t make the same connections???

and if i do make something i feel kind of good abt i realize it’s only bc of talking to other people and absorbing /their/ thoughts?? then it feels like i’ve made a poor imitation of the rly great thoughts they’re having instead. 🫠

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@pastelsinmysky nobody is good at every part of art, which is hard because sometimes the things you like and notice aren’t the things you are good at yourself. nobody criticizes picasso for not being good at photorealism you know?? but maybe picasso himself secretly wished he was better at it, we’ll never know. but if you get to know yourself better and discover your strengths you can make stuff that's good enough that it doesn't matter. or stuff that wouldn't even be possible any other way

characterization is difficult in fandom because everyone is sooooo character-focused all the time but. there are other ways of writing and other kinds of emphases a story could have. and i bet some of them you have a gift for too

idk. i think being good at writing is less actually developing skills and more just learning about who you are and how you express yourself and embracing it. and sometimes it sucks because you really wish you were different and could do these different cool things other people are doing but. changing who you are is a very slow process and you have to be kind to yourself in the meantime. and no type of person is bad

possibly encouraging? maybe just writing meta re: fandom related negative self talk 

@Lady ahhh this was such a thoughtful and kind message to read :( thank you for taking the time! it really is encouraging and a good reminder to ultimately be kind to yourself :blobCatHeart:

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