apropos of nothing (this is a lie) i am going to link to the third paragraph on from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gerard_Way#Personal_life
@aescling glancing at how many times this article uses "they" in a way that unambiguously refers to Gerard way--
oh there's an annotation about it. the article uses "masculine pronouns for consistency"
@manifold this might be a matter of (bad) wikipedia pawlicy; judith butler has an equivalent annotation
@aescling yeah i assumed so tbh
@aescling oh no the thing is that they're VERY consistent
in using only he/him after saying they use he/they