me, last week: look, I'm not really in a place to talk about this right now. Let's table it for now. If you're not able to talk to me without discussing [SUBJECT], I get it and we'll put stuff on pause for now.

them: okay, got it.

also them, last week and this week: I just think it's really important we dissect and discuss the shit out of the thing you said you don't want to talk about