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@ljwrites yeah its v frustrating! both how high the standards can be and, as you say, how unevenly they’re applied. it’s like we all got trapped in the 50’s
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@Satsuma and it gets internalized, too, which is the hardest to deal with T_T
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@Satsuma the moralization of housework is endemic in many cultures, in deeply gendered and ableist ways at that, and it's something I find challenging to navigate while I slowly declutter and organize my own home.