help i have developed my identity around a hobby that only people who are either evil or traumatized do. now the only spaces i can go to talk about it are full of people who are either evil or traumatized. how do i fix this
@Lady I am trying to guess the hobby from this description and what I know about you and am being less successful than one might think. (Unless it's just "computers" and an implication that computer people must be in one of the two categories, but I don't *think* you think that's true.)
