@coriander I think like... some of these points are probably correct and maybe you need to know them in a business class like yeah, two semesters of japanese I took, I was told outright refusal is considered impolite in like social interactions. But at the same time I'm pretty sure there are plenty of cases of americans not wanting to refuse something (like in work / negotiations) so they ask for impossible shit as a condition.
It feels like older anthropological studies, or like travel food writing.
@lapis @coriander it's also wrong in the sense that in chinese it's outright acceptance that's considered rude and if you want to be really traditionally polite you should probably say no first like, three times
like their model of "asia" is clearly just japan and not, you know, the other countries whose flags are listed
@lapis @coriander “ah yes, China, the country whose meritocratic administrative systems were grounded in the standardized testing of literary classics while europeans were running around hitting themselves with sticks… surely they do not ‘give authority to written information’” ?????
@lapis @coriander the only way i can explain those final bullet points is “arabic and chinese are prettier than latin script”, which, YES, because they CARE ABOUT THE WRITTEN WORD okay i will stop yelling about this now