unironically asking for a friend, please boost
my best friend has been feeling curious about the concept of genderfluidity and how she can see if there’s any connection to how she feels that to be quite honest, gender means nothing to her when she’s addressed
any resources and/or responses are appreciated
unironically asking for a friend, please boost
@Stevarow i can recommend a fanfic https://archiveofourown.org/works/7149080
my take is that if gender truly means nothing to your friend, they are agender, not genderfluid, but in practice the former often is a survival technique masking something much more complicated
the fundamental question is whether gender means nothing to you because you don't have a gender, or because you are too dissociated from your sense of self/identity to say what it is. in the former case there's no action required; the latter case might call for radical change
