women never know what they want and set too many boundaries but men must always respect them, even when they are ill-advised and the women later change their minds; it's very important to demonstrate this
men on the other hand never need to set boundaries; why would they, women should get to press and tease them as much as they like
i am a straight girl writing fanfiction and this is what i believe
literally i do not think i have ever read a male character say “no” of his own account and not out of some misguided sense of duty or responsibility towards the other party