what i mean though is i don't actually like social media that much for having actual conversations, and for status updates you can get away with something much simpler
yes there is still the hypothetical problem of “status updates for a limited audience” but in practice i don't find that to be that pressing; just send an email or chat message if you need someone to know you're doing something but don't want the whole world to know
beyond that i think the exclusivity of the limited audience leads to a strengthening of the parasocial aspects like
yes you are learning things about a person that not everybody knows but that still doesn't mean you like, know them at all as a person, and it especially doesn't mean they know you
i did make this shortcut and i'm working on the post-receive hook and some minimal html files to display the thing but it will probably be done tomorrow
i'm now wondering if in addition to normal timestamp-based statuses it would be useful to also have tag+uuid7-based statuses for things like notes or snippets which are not so ephemeral; that might be future work
this is all set up on my end i’m just waiting for my girlfriend to figure out the routing for the server; i gave her a somewhat complex list of demands
python HTML processing is bad so the only markup i will support is <example://link> or <example://link>="link text"