remember that time when that one lesbian couple was like “actually it’s really hard to be both partners and coworkers and like we’re able to do it because we’re really on top of our shit but it’s not for most people” and then like six months later it came out that one of them was abusive and subsequently was put out on the streets
it may have actually been more like 18 months, i forget which year this was and am really just guessing
anyway i’m just thinking about how much nicer my relationships are with people when the things i have to do for them are little things like “remember a detail about their day” and not “finish that work project you’ve been putting off for like a week now which they really need you to have finished, like, yesterday”
had to be there i guess